Rome, Italy

I only had one day to game in Rome. When I arrived in the city, I counted about 6 ioi’s. Also, the girls are my 2nd favorite in Europe, behind the Croats, in terms of looks. This seemed promising.

I only did 5 approaches, and took 1 number, a British girl of all kinds. I didn’t open any of the ioi’s because they were on my way to my destination. I also got a nice ioi as I was leaving from a very attractive Italian girl. Funny timing as usual.

I’m focusing on ioi generation and noticing now. The anxiety is proving to be as difficult as when I first started approaching. I’m trying to time the subtle smile and up-nod as I notice she’s locking eyes with me. This has taken some practice in the mirror so my smile is noticeable but not over the top.

I’m going with a compliment if I get an ioi, no compliment without one. I give myself a 3-1 cold to warm approach ratio now, it’s more sustainable and (hopefully) more efficient.

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Zagreb and Ljubljana 2nd Trip

Some would say that this trip was a complete failure. Indeed it could be, at over 100 approaches with little to no sexual results. It was rough. But I handled it better than ever (still was down, but never out). Zagreb girls are the hottest in Europe, and naturally, the toughest. My flake rate was astronomical. It forced me to re-evaluate my entire model and myself. It was very unpleasant; and also the most fruitful trip I’ve had.

I got to Zagreb and felt like a kid in a candy store, the perfect setup for soul crushing defeat. The first day, I got 6 of 8 bubbly numbers, and all flaked. Boom. Next day, less numbers, and all the bubbly ones flaked too. Like a ton of bricks, it got heavy real fast. The next day was more of the same. Finally, I got a date with a very masculine girl, and I didn’t want a day 2. Scrambling, I went through a variety of changes.

-First, I read the CH post on women’s attraction to less responsive men. Figuring that, since women need attraction and comfort for sex, it was best to front load less responsive behavior, and gradually become more empathetic on dates. This matched with my successful strategy of letting girls invest in dates. I played this out by making sure to use alot of “I” in the approach, and more “you” on the date. Results were better and warmer with this method.

-Next, I ditched the hat and went out with my non fully groomed bald head, for a more masculine look. I had a nice breakthrough moment on the approach, and this look got me a date with the hottest girl yet, as well as a solid idate with a pretty doctor. Definitely a new option, and I’ll be starting a new method for shaving it all off next month that will be even better. The idate was uneventful, and the regular date I bailed after two venues and relentless shit testing, finally ending in non-compliance; so I walked away. Only thing there was a bit more non-expectation to sexual beta bait.

-I used a professional archetype instead of an artistic archetype for a few approaches. Results were good, but not much better. Probably a wash.

That was the end of Zagreb. I pulled into Ljubljana and found a much warmer reception from the girls like last time, but still flaky and less quality than Croatia. I had a date with a French girl; she was a little wacky (I saw her the next day with the same shirt on), plus the mosquitos were killing me. She basically said I was overgaming a bit, but the bugs make the readout hazy. I had a date with an 18yr. Very little touching before the failed kiss attempt in venue2, but also not enough motivation (for me) for a day2, plus disrespect from her planning another meetup after our date, put an end to that one. I met a few nice people who recognized I was doing game, and hung out with them for a bit. I really enjoy when that happens.

-The 18yr and the hot Zagreb girl made me re-think my kiss strategy – keep up the touching and kino throughout the date, and save the kiss for the bedroom, unless its obvious from flybys that she will accept it.

-In Ljub, I started to read Roosh’s new game book. He had a great section on cold vs warm approach, and their correlated success rates. Although I believe he’s a bit too pessimistic about cold approach success, his point that warm approaches from IOIs got him 20x the success was huge. I reflected on some of my success, and noticed a fair amount featured an IOI, most recently from the Ljub 18yr, who gave me noticeable locked eyes. Slow walking + IOI is gold. I knew that already, but it was nice to be reminded because I forgot about it. I realized I was avoiding eye contact, and this was dumb. I went out the next day with the express purpose of simply smoking out IOIs. I did this by locking eyes with every cute girl who passed me while tapping a beat on my water bottle for attention, in the vein of Krauser. I got a few electric ones – high reaction Asian 6, medium reactions Slov 6 and 7. I realized my approach strategy needed to be adjusted – lock eyes with every cute girl to test for an IOI, and in the meantime, cold approach at will.

-I got to thinking that IOIs are not destiny, contrary to Roosh – an IOI can be created with a good plan that goes beyond simple looks, as pointed out by Krauser, in the same way that a rockstar gets IOIs because of his attention getting behavior. I don’t plan on performing while daygaming, so I’ll have to improvise. I realized that signaling a fun world in everyday scenarios can consist of talking on the phone or listening to music while tapping a beat with my hands. I’ll hold eye contact while listening to music and tapping a beat, or simulating a phone call. Then I’ll cold approach in between fishing for warm approaches by removing the headphones.

-I also was reminded from reading Roosh to focus on teasing while going off script in the approach, as the rest of the model takes care of comfort and attraction nicely.

These changes were painful, but I think they will have some nice results when I go once more to Barcelona.

A Message To My Next Life Self

A Message To My Next Life Self:

Express interest in Judo at an early age. It will give you options against anyone of any size, great for confidence. Avoid fighting, but gracefully, by using conversational strategies. Always have the strategies for conversation ready that are mentioned in this letter. Also, use the game strategies mentioned here to succeed in business, in friendships, and with girls. Forget about female advice on just about anything. They are generally unhelpful, except for affection, beauty, and fun. Use ECFV and TNSF, leaving out the ‘S'(sexual comment) to make friends with anyone. Be relaxed, do the plan, and forgive yourself and others when it doesn’t work out.

When meeting new people, start out with a question or observation. Then, an excuse why you’re there. Next is guessing where they’re from, having them guess your origin, and then asking for good confirmation biases. Next, discuss travel to new places, mention how you don’t take enough photos, and your loved ones ask for more. Complete rapport by guessing their occupation, supporting what they really want to do, and then discuss yours in visual detail. Next, make a small tease about their height or appearance. If it’s a girl, check her out, then apologize for it. Next, confirm the conversation was fun, ask if they like something, then say “we should do it sometime because it’d be fun.” This is ECFV TNSF. Throughout, look for TFRSAC and DFFSE; that is, tease, flatter, rapport, sexualization (for girls), amused observations, and compliance opportunities. Next acronym is dreams (reinforce), fears (allay), failures (justify), suspicions (confirm), and enemies (go against them). If it’s a girl, always keep strong eye contact.

On dates, follow a three venue model, regardless of her interest, unless she tells you her intentions. First venue, say she looks nice, bring her to the spot, use open questions, and let her invest. Discuss how there are many hot girls and few cool men, and how you found money at the beach one time. Remember she is a child, and you are the prize. You need to cause her to imagine good feelings. Any shit tests (power plays, from men or women), use PAVICS – pressure flip (ask a question), agree and amplify, vague response, ignore and change subject, command them, or make a situational observation. These strategies can be combined for maximum effect. Also, use ‘because’ when you make any request, even at any time in life besides a date.

Next, bring her to the 2nd venue. Ask her about her favorite celebrity and have her imagine his work. Tell her an NLP story about being a musician or other cool activity, and tell her you feel love for her without using the three word phrase. Kiss her here or on the way to venue 3; if she rebuffs, tell her it’s ok and you’ll try again later, until she relents. If she’s interested, she’ll stay, and let you try again. Talk about your house (positively), about how your best friend became that way because they were not intentionally difficult, and how you’re the guy your friends trust with their secrets.

Now, move her to venue 3. Show disagreement on trivial matters so you don’t look like a complete ‘yes’ man. Talk about how your friend’s girlfriend refuses to use birth control because of health risks, and they have no problems because he pulls out every time. Discuss 80’s movies and their sappy romance scenes, taking a tour with a sketchy tour guide that ends up going well, and an unshameful Cleopatra who didn’t listen to society, which caused her to become the Queen. Move on to stories about each others’ first kisses, and eating food right away from the store when it’s most attractive and exciting and you want it the most. Seed the idea of having good wine or listening to music together sometime, as a callback to make it easier for her to come up later. Don’t heat her up too much (ex. too much kissing/kino) so you can get her up easier as well. Take turns paying for drinks by venue, and speed things up as necessary based on logistical constraints.

In the extract, talk and walk consistently, and do not stop until she’s inside your apartment. Any problems, bring up having wine or music, as you discussed with her earlier. Go to the bathroom and take off your belt, so when you heavily make out on the bed, you can easily take your dick out as soon as possible and let her hold it. Make sure you both take shoes off at the door. Remember, it’s her job to satisfy you, all the pressure is on her to get and keep you hard when the clothes are off. Use dirty talk and take what you want. If you want to see her again, assuage her fear of attachment by telling a story about loving to play your favorite activity from the very first time you tried it. Tell her to let you know she’s back ok when she leaves. Any sexual resistance, roll off, use calming strategies like square breathing and the 54321 exercise, then try again. Square breathing is 4 sec in, hold, and out. 54321 is the amount of things you hear, see and feel per number, while focusing on a single object.

Use these strategies for yourself also whenever you feel overwhelming anxiety. Also, self hypnotize because it feels great. Talk generally, and let people fill in the blanks. Take care of your style; be basic and current, with one popping item, and basic jewelry (with a story behind each piece). When you approach and get rejected, remember to forgive, so you can lose the battle easily but win the war which is far more important. Rejection is the norm in almost all aspects of life, and especially in dating, so the ability to easily come back to the batters box is most important when you have infinite outs. Forgive yourself easily as well, and find any way to improve. Forgive yourself if you can’t improve, and try again. The past is no real predictor of the future. Make sure you lift weights, their effects are far underrated. Learn sales training and NLP at the youngest age possible, so you can be visual and inspire feelings in others to help you get what you want. Start your own businesses and work on them for 10 years; success is guaranteed in some form. Finally, show interest in others, and read the Power of Positive Thinking.

Having a plan makes you better than almost everyone, and you can feel safe in that knowledge. Believe in God, visualize what you want, and develop your talent stack where it’s diverse and good (greatness not required). For objections, listen, agree, and suggest an alternative. Learn to swim properly. Decide to do something, do your commitment, and adjust accordingly. Remember that you can always participate in life; you’re never alone unless you want to be. There are millions of people who you would enjoy spending time with, amongst the billions on the planet. Life in abundance because it’s possible if you believe it. And when someone acts weird, you set the deadlines and boundaries, where you walk away (preferred) or fights (last resort) if they don’t fulfill your standards.

These are the most important things I’ve learned so far for a successful, happy, and fulfilling life, and I hope they find you at an early age.

FIRST ORDER OF BUSINESS – clarify the model

Simplified:

1) Fractionate Mood with Style (keep consistent style/mood with same girl)
-Increase Accent, spent time in x for work.
-style up. shave up. hat option.
*IOI Generator*- put on great music. walk and smile. hold eye contact. option for fake phone call. observe IOI + slow moving best chance.
2) Take it easy, follow the plan, forgive them.
-Visualize God on the mic as a partner.
(top two apply to everything always)
-stop chatter. Stay mindful (whats in front of you) to stay happy.
-if it’s not there, doesn’t matter. if dislike it, change.
-big picture: love and great sex
-let go of resentments before/during gaming. They reject their personal image of you that’s a variable, not you or your ego.
-dont cry about it, alternatives are worse.
-be decided
3) Choose high volume, good looking area (look for metro spots)
4) Bring prop, gum, and flask. *add heavier accent: new york or london*
–WALK SLOW–
5) Choose opener based on setup (direct/situational/personalized situational)
6) Run opening sequence (include excuse, social proof, and weighted TFRS[A])
-big voice, varied pitch, smile early
7) Number close or i-date
8) Positive Persistent Texting almost daily with roll-offs
9) Run date sequence (keep logistics near sex location)
10) If forebrain is comforted (flattery + reassurance accepted) and hindbrain is on (kino + tease accepted), extract, otherwise repeat 8-10.
11) Babble easy bullshit until she’s inside, then any excuse to get her shoes off at the door.
12) Chill escalation to sex, make sure to put her hand on your dick.

Unpacked:

Pre-open:

1) I am her Ferrari (Winnin’ R). She should drive it, not just admire it in the garage.
2) style fractionation – weight model based on mood (group similar light/dark styles together, ex. light vs dark artistic/preppy/badass). prep look more unrefined asshole (tease), badass look more friendly (rapport/flatter), artist look more subdued delivery, chode more funny delivery (amused). appropriate R-selection.
3) vibe visualization – notice positives in environment (so many awesome things). every girl is a cumslut and loves hard dick.
-mantra (channel emotion through alan watts teaching)
4) take appropriate prop, take mini-flask if anticipate dating.
5) logistics plan
-unlimited tram stop game is great.
6) force physical ioi’s
7) red girls are sexual
8) hum for cadence, breathe into ground
9) bring a condom
10) Impressive open spaces are best, just outside tourist spots / near metro+museum. stay in center, hunt just outside.

General Concepts In Communication:

-TFRSAC for conversation, always DFFSE [[vague/super-confident speaking]], PAVICS hoops/anger, revolve all three around her positive confirmation bias (feed it with smoke to create perception of fire). TFRSAC DFFSE PAVICS ((feed CONFIRMATION BIAS / LEVERAGE))
-***call out her thoughts*** Pace and lead her personality (simple and similar)
-relentless shit testing: give angry rebuke that’s nuclear if continue.
-two friend surprise = keep it short and friendly, hit on friend, don’t pay for shit, hug her goodbye.
-use the Roosh bathroom move if she has: 1)a time restriction + 2)no roommate issue. Heed hints and work them into situation.
–HEAVY HITTING RAPPORT–(1) DFFSE always applies (2) Open-ended questions (3) pace (similar emotion) and lead into visual, general stories which convey her desired emotions for you in problem, tension, resolution / get her to make up the story you want her emotions to become (4) Compare self to favs, contrast worse
–SEXUAL NEG–Question abt her appearance w/o compliment, tease says dont need her.
-silly excuse for sexual touching
-less talking, but more quickly if need to bamboozle
-LAS-suggestion is imagine question
-Repeat what you want her to believe (I’m the best)
-Use alot of “Us” and “We” everywhere to blow the bubble
-NLP descriptions, simple language
-I/You switch in stories: they must focus on eyes/jewelry/environment when you relax them and suggest feelings.
-include because with every request, but the because should slime the alternative.
-talk of another guy = ask questions and say sounds like a good catch, next, are you done trying to impress me
-her: “do you talk to every girl like this” response: are you saying you’re not special?
her: “stranger/you don’t know me” = do you know 100% of anyone? All we know is how they are with us, and whether they make us feel good or not in the moment.
-her: “we’re not having sex / on a date” = of course not, I really like you.
-her: emotionally closed / immature = freeze out + compliance test + reward
-never give advice. never give unappreciated attention.
-neg her appearance deficit in someone else. for men, neg their confidence deficit in someone else.
-look for subtle/playful sexualization always
-flatter revealed insecurity
-flattery is a tool, not a tax.
-flatterlove
-small compliances
-look for logistics hints and build momentum before next ask, and use compliance ladder
-sidekick commentary
-bragging: use pavics for diversion
-dhv’s = i’m preselected + badass for R or Hero for K. *convey personality trait*
-concerns (comfort[love] test)? = LAS and reassure (lies / placate if needed)
-real argument (comfort[love] test)? she wants comfort, then honest reframe (ride it out, don’t overdo it [roll-off])
-reassure comfort[love] test (use sweet lines), swat shit test.
-lack of comfort / reassurance = ASD / LMR
-challenge (shit test) – PAVICS
-push/pull, bad/good girl subtle sexualized frame
-no lay on 1st/2nd date = quick coffee date before 3rd date
-grind down negatives, fuel positives
-listen for rep. system
-leading questions for compliance, open-ended for investment
-only bait drop when she asks
-girls are entitled to silly buggers until after you fuck, roll-off back and escalate
-create a reaction
-only tell a long game candidate about a trip a few weeks before you go.
-long flights aisle, short flights window.
-milind soman for vibe (inspiration + emotion)

Open:

-if you’re surprised with random good banter, just run closer at #12

1-Set
[E,C,F,V || TNSF]
1) First comment based on setup
-delayed eye glance, smile, and stop hand (on hey or exc me)
-pace all physical traits.
-**time constraint in pre-opener** (only have a min)
2a) Can I tell/ask you something/Can you do me a favor – pace and lead her mood
*semi-stationary or moving*
-what’s best/how good, and/or personal?, then witty banter
2b) Observation about her stuff or self, then witty banter
*stationary* – notice and react to her in a way she can see.
–*Hi-five before moving on*–
4) Move in, enjoy sexual tension
-“let’s move over here to get out of the way / it’s better”
-mention excuse why you’re there, holding prop (friend went to hang w gf is gr8)
(friends w/bartender good for night game)
5) I love your eye color/long hair/you’re pretty/cute. Your look is interesting, like a [neg about what wearing]
6) Look like you could use some fun (point to self)
7) Fun assumption + story, what she looks like, etc
a)what do you like about people from NY/America? (feed Conf. bias)
-you might have noticed ppl from ny…
b)what is something you really like to do? (feed Conf. bias)
-TFRS[A] – anything amusing snip and stack it
-fav/unfav, THEN compare yourself to it (imagine and describe)
-arm kino
-relate to her DREAMS and encourage. *if HS ask abt dream life after grad.
8) drop/find prevailing story talents [bait] as active (conf. bias smoke, I’m doing x…) [**add in the word Unique**]
-friends and family social proof
-basic badass or hero story, setting tension resolution. bait her to be helpful sidekick (muse?, inspiration for x)
-“You’re lucky you met the best guy/man”
*** [Talk of travel] Do you think it’s good to give a chance to new, interesting places your friends haven’t seen before? TALK OF MOTORCYCLE TRIP ***
9) Names, repeat 7-8
10) On/off bashful sexualization (checking you out)
-“do you think I’m attractive?”
-also discuss her race of girls
11) General Neg (tall like giant, short like doll, 6th person shoes/clothes)
12) Close: you like ?’s
-Imagine youre enjoying ____ in a nice place with me, would you like that?
Cool, I can send you a message…
-you’re cute, we should go to a nice place b/c it’d be more fun than anything else. [variables park/sports/show/beach]
-“this was fun, / because it’d be a shame to let this go to waste.”
-“You might be thinking I can’t believe this guy, but I’m just a bold person sometimes / but other girls in the past really enjoyed this.”
-ask when is her favorite time to talk, like before bed or aftr wrk?
-FOR I-Date 1) enthusiasm + 2) free plans check.
-if hesitation: look i’ll just send you a message, and you can decide, it’s no big deal.
-write #, include ‘text me’ or when free
-drop small gift (nice things are ok combined w/game)

2-Set (Play it a bit more loose, closing question is key)
1) First comment based on setup
-delayed eye glance, smile, and stop hand (on hey or exc me)
2a) Can I tell/ask you something – pace and lead their mood
-semi-stationary or moving.
-What’s best/how good, and/or personal?, then witty banter
2b) Observation about her stuff or self
-stationary.
4) Move in, enjoy sexual tension
-mention excuse why you’re there, holding prop
5) I love your eye color/long hair. Your look is interesting, like a [neg about what wearing]
6) Look like you could use some fun (point to self)
7) Fun assumption + story, what she looks like, etc
-TFRS[A] – anything amusing snip and stack it
-fav/unfav (imagine and describe)
-arm kino
8) drop/find prevailing story bait
-friends and family social proof
-basic badass or hero story, setting tension resolution.
9) Names, repeat 7-8
10) On/off bashful sexualization
-also discuss her race of girls
11) General Neg (tall like giant, short like doll, 6th person shoes/clothes)
*****12) Close: you like ?’s,*****
-hmmm…[turn to girl you don’t want] “(name), would it be ok if i took your cute friend to a nice place sometime b/c it’d be great.”
-if hesitation: look i’ll just send you a message, and you can decide, it’s no big deal.
-write #, include ‘text me’ or when free
-drop small gift

Openers
-all else, just ask an opinion question. always include time constraint.
1) Stationary = Situational observation about her or her stuff. Also “come here often?”. *Notice and react to her in a way she can see.*
2) Moving on street = Direct
i. Was just walking over there, come over thought you looked nice, like a… / that shirt or skirt is very popular, lots of girls wearing it.
ii. Can’t tell if/hard to guess/wondering: nationality, good/bad boys, 1st move, party/netflix girl, text/phone girl, big brains/muscles, married/single
-option [exc me, sry obv int / you’re a little [excuse], usually don’t, but are you friendly person? / can I ask you a question?]
3) Semi stationary street/in venue = opinion question on shared environment (what is best/how good is)
-context alpha through street performance is an option.
4) BOYFRIEND/MARRIED:
i. (you can keep him. then ask abt, and provide logistics escape)
ii. “so you know I’m a good guy…would one of your friends be interested in getting a drink because I have some time”. Text later: “Hey, X gave me your number, and said we should say hello because you’re cute. My name’s Z. I’m a ___ from nyc, visiting my friend at Y university. Do you know anything about people from nyc?” Go thru rest of approach and close w/date logistics.

Dates (STFU + let her invest, follow plan, TFRSAC for gaps, emotion talk):

(A) Venue 1 (Day1: hand hip hug, “you look nice”. bookend day1 text. Day2: lift up and kiss, skip to venue 2. Sit across, plan for 30 mins)
—–idate interrupt: go with her and run interference to get back on date—-

1) objective: get comfy, find and feed confirmation bias she likes, get how to seduce her. TFRSAC and funny self-aggrandize charming/handsome. GPM3RAF*
2) basic compliance tests, let her talk more, basic NLP and kino1
3)**DFFSE** – Dreams (encourage), Failures (justify), Fears (allay), Suspicions (confirm), Enemies (lampoon) [Eliciting negatives is powerful]
3) open-ended college questions and free-minded statements/stories: life is about discovery, experimentation, adventure, new experiences, taking chances to find great rewards, going with the flow, trusting yourself to let go, having fun, marriage sucks.
–storytell about what next compliance you want indirectly, in a different, greater context (unexpected love)–look at rapport above.
4) discuss city: many beautiful girls not cool men here
5) ask fav vaca for aud/vis/physical NLP story preference
6) Imagine you really like someone [point]. What would you want to ask them?
7) found $100 at the beach – i was just walking along, preoccupied looking at the waves, then i looked down and there it was, so unexpected and awesome.
8) Extract: Let’s go to another place because it should be better than here.
-after extract: Lets take a picture because it’d be nice. Imagine you’re looking at the most attractive man you’ve ever seen.

(B) Venue 2 (break after kiss and bookend, or gun it for SDL if forebrain comfort is really good along with hindbrain attraction. Get seat next to her. NLP deep story is huge here, watch body language for kiss and extract)

1) objective: TFRSAC, touching, feed conf. bias, inspire…
a. attraction (touching kino, fav celeb [*COMPARE yourself*] + flyby kiss test)
–“when did you first find me attractive?”
— my friend is writing a romance book about a girl who begins a relationship very quickly with a man. Many relationships take more time to start, but what do you think is good about starting a relationship quickly? —
— Imagine youre really attracted to someone [point]. How would you look at them if they were sitting right here?
— is there any reason you would not want to kiss me?
— 2nd date NLP: what kind of kisses do you like best
b. admiration (hero[k] or badass[r] NLP dhv stories on conf. bias, music concert works well here)
— 2nd date NLP: recording in studio, imagine listener.
c. trust (let her invest, set 2?s, be vulnerable and comfort with reassurance/**drop first flatterlove statement)
-storytell about what next compliance you want indirectly, in a different, greater context (kiss, attraction, admiration, trust)–see rapport above.
2) kino touching, drive by kisses, small compliance. goal is bedroom.
-option: lets see if you can stop smiling for 10 seconds looking into my eyes
–“Don’t you love the feeling, after you, have a first kiss, of being so happy with the other person?” –THINK PAST SALE
–after kiss “not bad, maybe try again later”. note floppiness.
3) talk about:
–place
–friends x3
a. best friend like? for me difficult bad, ez good.
b. I have a nice stereo, so he’ll come over, we’ll have a drink and listen to some new music.
c. friends tell you secrets? I’m that guy.
4) Extract: This place is getting boring, lets go to another place closeby because it’ll be fun.
5) option celeb crush NLP (only if haven’t kissed yet OR gunning for SDL, otherwise save for date 2):
a. alot of girls have fav crush when younger, who did you have on a poster
b. fav scene/song where you thought .. really .. liked him
c. describe in detail the scene/song and feeling
d. did he do other projects? i thought so, my younger cousin told me that her friend i met a few years ago said i had similar personality.
e. i’m not sure i see it. can you imagine how i’m similar to ‘x’? ::kiss option::
f. lets play a game, close your eyes and imagine the scene/song [try talking close to ear/anchor hand]
g. he looks you deep in eyes and moves closer. you feel a nervous, intense attraction, and wish for more. you see him slowly back away, and want him to come back to you, so you say i want you, come back to me. he moves in a centimeter from your lips so you can feel his breath as he looks into your soul, and then ::kiss option::

(C) Venue 3 or *2new within* / Extract (LO KEY private, sit next to her. if floppy and comfort is right, consider moving to extract)

1) objective: don’t heat up too much. seed hear new music / drink gr8 wine.
(if you have to rush these into previous venue, so be it)

[[AA]]. HYPNOSIS – more compliant. consider moving up to approach after success.
i. go first with the objectives: biggest failure ex. when child, i told fav uncle i’d be a millionaire. later, he needed heart surgery and couldn’t afford it, so had to wait on list, and died waiting. Now i’ve made sure that won’t happen again to another family member.
-for extra trust: phone rings (tap home button), it’s lawyer. if she grabs phone ask why did u hang up, then text lawyer. password for company bank account. do u have a pen and paper; if not, take out own pen and write it down. can u hold that for now because i don’t want to lose it.
ii. “what’s your biggest problem in life right now? must make you feel x” and dffse it away. My fav college professor, she taught me something that helps with those bad feelings, do you want to try it?
iii. begin trance. suggest away uncomfortableness, shyness, unfamiliarity, hesitation, LMR. suggest connection and attraction.
–in order for it to work, you need to listen very closely.
–focus on me completely. (if cant look in my eyes, look between them, here)
–move a little to your right. (LAS questions if she doesnt)
–is it ok to put my hands on your shoulders
–nothing to be concerned about, everything is fine, you feel amazing, focus on me
–put finger or hand on back of head. then tip head forward and say sleep.
–lead with words “you feel”, keep hold of shoulders.
–give simple question commands, like raise arm, relax arm, etc
–imagine last movie you saw with sex. you feel etc
–when I touch you on this hand, you will feel this incredible sexual energy.
–think about when you went to your favorite beach with your friends. you feel confident, completely comfortable and familiar.
–when you hear my voice, you will feel these same feelings, and smile.
–imagine youre the next queen, proud of your feelings, you dont listen when someone says your feelings are bad.
–lift one of your legs slowly, and feel proud of your feelings
–imagine you are with your childhood crush. you’re naked in bed, you feel etc
–when I touch you on this hand, you will feel this incredible sexual energy.
–imagine you are buying fresh food from the store. you can’t wait to bring it home and eat it right away because you’re so excited, and you know it’s the best right away.
–nod your head and feel this sense of excitement.
–(hold both hands) now, I want you to slowly lift one leg, smile, and nod your head. feel these good feelings when you hear my voice every time you hear me speak.
–I will now count backwards from 5, and when I get to 1, you will open your eyes and wake up.
–you did it, congratulations.

[[BB]]. NLP – less compliant
a. attraction (heavy kino, petting, sex talk in ear, finish questions game)
-first time kiss / first (time) like?
-describe patrick swayze roadhouse scene
b. trust (let her invest, be vulnerable, comfort reassurance, flatterlove)
–put her in your apartment/put yourself in hers–
–LOVE–“I’m thinking this is happening so fast, but I have to be honest… I feel so much love for you.”
-local, new, cool tour guide in hawaii thru forest to beach
-going to the beach every summer (jess+cody, comfortable, confident, familiar)
c. unshame, pride (anti-society freedom topic, proud of trust in feelings)
-the queen was shamed for good feelings from leadership b/c wasn’t right for a woman. she didn’t listen when someone said her feelings were bad, and was proud of her feelings, and had an amazing experience of being the queen.
d. attraction (heavy kino, petting, light sex talk in ear)
-you’re doing things to me (like what = detailed, with her permission to be)
–“don’t you love feeling, after you, have great sex, of feeling so warm and happy with the other person?”
–talk about great sex as one of the best parts of being an adult.
– describe riverdale forbidden teacher affair VW scene
e. urgency (sense of loss, missing out)(compliance ladder extract sentence)
“life is short, life is dull, life is full of pain, so it’s really unique when you get a chance for something special, right?”
**love eating food from the store as quickly as possible, fresh and excited to have something new that you want right after you bring it back home.
+ ex-girl said cum tastes amazing because I eat healthy foods.
-my guitar, when i saw it, i immediately knew i wanted it, and bought it right away. that was years ago, and still to this day, i love playing it more than any other guitar.
-talked w/friend, best relationships began with sex early, then built around that.

2) Extract:
(SEED ONCE BEFORE)
a1. You want to hear my/some great music right? or
a2. You like to drink really good wine right?
b. let’s take a walk because this place is getting boring.
c. ABOVE GROUND transport. Work with this.
3) At place:
a. cockblock = one Listen, Agree to detriment (and call out sex thoughts), Suggest question only.
b. babble easy positive bullshit topics until she’s inside.
c. shoes off at the door. if difficult “what color socks / do your shoes leave red marks on feet”
d. if door open “do you have a poster on back of door?”
e. offer drink, put on funny animal movies on youtube or show her something cool you discussed, then serengeti. Put on thievery.
f. go to bathroom and prep pants**
g. hang out, make out, take dick out. once she’s holding it, finger her pussy. then get naked.
h. resistance = go back to whatever activity, use love statement, and repeat g.
-LAS last resort to see where she’s at.

3) Sex: her job is to get you hard and off. It’s on her.
-dirty talk during sex (you like making me __, give me your__)(i know you love when, me to her and her to me, two-way)(dominant talk)
-be detailed, NLP about what friend’s girl liked.
-LMR/ASD is lack of comfort reassurance flatterlove, so pour it on
-LMR: talk about naked, loving, warm, fuzzy, sweet cuddling after sex.
-LMR story: I agree, it can be emotionally tough to enjoy yourself. You can be strong right? How much should we let society tell us how we should feel or what we should do? Can you imagine feeling happy to ignore society, and only focus on enjoying how much we truly want each other right now? What we do here stays here.

4) Final Text:
– take a bedroom selfie “because our faces look so different after sex”
– leaving your place – let me know you’re back ok
– leaving her place – are you getting ready for (sleep / next activity)

To Do Throughout-
1) lampoon rivals
2) drop interesting, INTRINSIC dhv stories (preselected badass or hero)
3) make marriage a terrible thing
4) make fun of her sexual mind and mine too [setup with mundane chat]
5) receptive to kino = sit her close by showing pictures
6) fake disqualification (i’m more than just a piece of meat, this will never work, you only care about my body)
7) her freedom and my freedom are important
8) sing in shower question
**10) discuss simple hobbies/likes/passions and put them before sex
11) screen logistics for the night
12) continuous questions game (flip seduction script) on/off/on/off: fav animal, set1?, last sex, set1?, undies, set1?, never done sexual thing, set1?, 1st kiss, set1?, ever worn no underwear, fav dinosaur, have secret sexy photos, openly move dick.
13) triangle gaze to kiss
14) blame society for ASD: what’s common is not always what’s natural

-break 4th wall if kino receptive (openly discuss seduction playfully)
-not easy/good girl = hey nothing’s gonna happen, on my period / good i like good girls / yes, it’s my fault, i’m corrupting you or i take responsibility / cmon, thats not something you can plan for / let’s not negotiate like a contract. can verbalize internal fight.
-for any kinky shit: “youre an open minded person, right?” then do it and say “you turn me on so much” or be playful (do it while saying with a smile “no i dont like it” [agree and amplify]). hail mary: “no one understands, just b/c i’m a little different doesn’t mean i’m a bad person.”

Texting:

-focus on T+A+S, BUT pace and lead her personality.
-watch for DFFSE moments
-positive persistence system – TFRS(A), quick and light, look for logistics hints and build momentum before next ask, sense and say, strategic roll-off, come back ping with photo/emoji ping.
-text almost daily, at consistent, same time (re-blow the bubble when she likes to text after dinner/b4 sleep/after work)
-bookend dates
-pace and lead her style
-stay in message box as long as she does
-fake auto-correct sexual spikes
-girl crack visual quotes to drive her towards what you want
-any anxiety should be assuaged by self-LAS and multiple texting
-silly buggers nuclear option: “hey so you seem smart and pretty, but I might stop texting you because I feel strung along.”

Post-Game:

-that’s me (for what you like) vs. that’s not me (for what you don’t like)…detached updating…
-stress ball
-self-hypnotize, and go deeper into relaxed state – go with what comes up.
-express feelings, use pavics for any problems.
-self-LAS: acknowledge any negative emotion – find a way to express it in a way that doesn’t hurt – imagine a more positive emotion that can be attached to the situation.
-cartoonize anything bothersome
-visualize and reward progress
-understand it’s simply a game of probabilities that rewards persistence and experimentation. very little is personal after developing a good vibe and plan. tweak a few things later and come back to turning stones.
-early success is based on what you present, not who you are. you can mold her after you fuck her.
-girls bolster + reward confidence. brothers/sisters support in times of weakness.
-it is impossible to definitely have any one particular girl you choose to approach. sorry. who comes back to you after the approach and feeler text is entirely out of your hands. your job is to enjoy the scattershot, and reflect on improving probabilities. that’s it.
-Reduce emotional feedback by identifying it – what is it? the experience is (emotion)
-see a legal escort as a reward sometimes, to keep the pussy off the pedestal (after all, getting laid is easy if you simply have some paper).

Night Game Addendum:
1) Immediately get friendly with bartender, tip, and get name.
2) Scan for eye contact once in a while
3) pawn set, pawn set. then either pawn set + neg target (little/big sister) or go directly to her.
-option to try and catch alone if only a two set.
4) use all opinion openers
5) talk, move quick, be happy
6) ecfv/tnsf, then isolate in closer to another pre-planned part of venue. run date model.